太顾及别人感受、心软、自卑，这三者之间的关系？

我想“离婚”【事件本身】也许不是问题，而对“离婚”这件事的【看法】却构成了新问题。

也许在你看来，离婚意味着抛弃对方？或者因为种种原因，比如对方向你哭惨或者表达恼怒？又或者你观察到其他离了婚的人过得很可怜、很惨？

也许正是有了这些不太客观的认知，才造成了自己的心理负担，才会感到自责、愧疚。

但同时看的出来你真的蛮“心软”的，但在我看来这种“心软”更是一种善良、一种慈悲，你一定是个很温暖的人呢。

前段时间亚马逊CEO离婚了，写了一份离婚声明，大家惊呼说：啊！离婚都可以这么美好！

让我们来看看这份声明：
“We want to make people aware of a development in our lives.

As our family and close friends know, after a long period of loving exploration and trial separation, we have decided to divorce and continue our shared lives as friends.

We feel incredibly lucky to have found each other and deeply grateful for every one of the years we have been married to each other.

If we had known we would separate after 25 years, we would do it all again.

We've had such a great life together as a married couple, and we also see wonderful futures ahead, as parents, friends, partners and ventures and projects, and as individuals pursuing ventures and adventures.

Through the labels might be different, we remain a family, and we remain cherished friends.”

这个例子是想说：离婚也许不意味着受伤，它也许意味着双方更美好的新生活！